My
first experience with leadership (in an organizational context) was when I
joined the U.S. Army. This was the first
job I had in which there was a large hierarchal structure of leadership. I had experienced other forms of leadership from
teachers and coaches (i.e. youth sports) but none like military
leadership. Military leadership “guided”
almost every aspect of my life – how I ought to think, behave, look, etc. At the time, it was the type of leadership
that I needed considering (at the age of 18) that I was somewhat misguided and
undisciplined. I believed that my leaders knew what was best for me and the
organization, and therefore I did not question it.
My grandparents and parents also
held the attitude that “leaders” knew better. However, it had nothing to do
with them being misguided and undisciplined but more to do with a cultural
upbringing. Filipinos (like many Asian
cultures) can be submissive or passive – not out of fear but out of deference. In
the case of my forefathers/mothers, they held the belief that leaders were
extraordinary people who deserved to lead. This may stem from the fact that my
family was raised poor and lacked education.
However, in my life, as I found
success in the military and became a leader myself, I realized that an
individual has more control of his or her life (and environment) that I
previously thought. I am a college graduate (and now pursuing an MBA) and have
more control on the outcome of my situation, and relying less on others
“leadership”. My children are also
raised to know they can determine their destiny, through their
decisions/choices. Yet, those decisions
must be guided by knowledge and critical thinking. In this day and age, it is inexcusable to be
ignorant or naïve.
Yet, with all the knowledge,
methodologies, courses, etc. dedicated to making better leaders, there is still
a gap. Despite the world being more connected, I believe that egocentrism is
one reason why leaders have failed. In
some cases, the people who have risen to power are more focused on their own
interests than that of the people they lead. In a complex and ever changing business
environment, leaders must strive to develop subordinate leaders – the power to
make decisions cannot rest in one person (or a select few). To correct this, leaders must work to develop
the traits of trust, empathy, humility, and fairmindedness to name a few.